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Dementia Care: Making a Difference in Minnesota Continued

Even in the Mid and Late Stages of Alzheimer’s and Related Dementia, Professional and Family Caregivers Can Still Make a Difference

Sadly, Alzheimer’s disease is a progressive disease.  There may be some noticeable ups and down, but over time, it will worsen.  As the loss of cognitive ability worsens, there comes a time when it is nolonger useful to try to help someone remember.  It only reinforces their fears and anxiety.  Many people will respond either with anger (they may feel you are putting them on the spot,) or they will pull in because they feel embarrassed about not be able to respond appropriately.

*  Keep learning as much as possible about the disease and its progression, so you can recognize changes in the person’s behavior and understand that it is the disease, not the person.

*  Validate feelings.  Persons with Alzheimer’s disease continue to have the same feelings we all do right through to death.  The difference is, they lose the ability to communicate their feelings.  Fear is a common emotion, because people whose brain cells are being destroyed don’t understand what’s happening to them.  They become frustrated and sometimes act out when those who care for them seem unable to understand them.  When they exhibit combative or other unwanted behaviors, there is almost always some need, feeling or fear that they have be unable to communicate.  Caregivers need to become detectives in order to discover the need behind the behavior.

*  “Does this really matter?” becomes a question the caregivers should ask them selves on a regular basis.  This is another version of “pick your battles.”  If the patient doesn’t want to do what you ask, in most cases it really won’t matter to just let it go and try again later.  No one ever died of not bathing eating or sleeping on a specific schedule.  Give some latitude where a delay is not a dangerous thing.

*  Don’t ask questions that put people on the spot.  Instead of asking do you remember the names of your grandchildren, say, ” Let’s talk about the little ones.”  Showing some pictures may help.  Don’t ask a person what they had for lunch or breakfast, instead, gives some clues to make it easier.  “Let’s see, we had eggs for breakfast, let’s have some chicken soup for lunch.”

*  Be aware that before dementia, the person had a daily routine.  Trying to continue that as much as possible with some adaptation toward simplifying can be helpful and give a feeling of security and success.  People with Alzheimer’s disease tend to tire easily (my theory is that they need to work very hard to just understand what’s going on in their day,) so alternate activities during the day with active (mild exercise, going for walks, help with simple household tasks) and more restful (naps, listening to music, reading short pieces to the person) tasks.

The bottom line is as the disease progresses, simplify, simplify, simplify.  If music, especially singing is enjoyable, just singing one verse and repeating the same verse a couple times is probably better than trying to get through all 4 verses of a favorite hymn.